Intimacy on Demand: The Ted Bundy Effect

But you see, Ol' Ted knew something about a lot of women that most people rarely think about. This is that females respond to something I call 'intimacy on demand'. He wrote that he could not have done what he did if not for this feminine aspect.

Here is an acronym for you:

IDIOT -Intimate Divulgence Instantly On Tap

Part of the problem is that women are trained to be the communicators- from birth, while boys are taught to be the 'strong, silent' type. Also women respond more readily to doing as they are told in order to 'get along' and not make waves. Altogether this has translated to making women more vulnerable and weaker in every way imaginable.

The technology age hasn't helped - with MySpace, Facebook and other 'social sites' giving people permission (and encouragement) to vomit out everything from details about their last abortion to their friends STD. It's turned into a three ring tech circus with the overriding theme of SHOW US YR TITS! And of course, those who do then rise to a higher social status within this strata of sublime stupidity. Apparently people even become addicted to living this false, ego-boosting reality show featuring them and need assistance to quit.

This stupidity at it's core allows everything from stores asking for your personal email address upon purchase of product - to the Girls Gone Wild guys connning totally unknown females into jumping drunkenly into a van to disrobe and get it on with other girls. Every one of those women have painted a big bulls-eye on themselves as the type of female who would be vulnerable to the Ted Bundys of the world.

I know this will piss a lot of people off - but the MySpace/Facebook account creation is actually the first seriously stupid step most people make in unnecessarily exposing their lives to the world at large. Even if you keep it 'private', it is not private to anyone working for these companies or half way decent kiddy hackers. And once you are out there - you are out there for good. I can find internet records of sites going back to 1996-97 in about 2 clicks of a mouse.

Despite constant warning news about stalkers killing people they have found on SS (Social Sites or Sublime Stupidity - take your pick) or people being defrauded or robbed, everyone is still out there insanely blabbing the most intimate details of their lives, locations, vacations, sex lives, family, etc.

It is well known in psychiatric medicine that cyberstalkers and rapists feed on personal information to expand their feeling of power over their victims. More information on this can be found here.

I'll give a few conversational examples on how to return to reality, next post.